What if the relationship that changed everything… was the one with yourself?
With Tyla is a Manchester based self-love practice for women and queer people. Through honest conversations, 1:1 guidance and workshops, I help you understand yourself more deeply, create meaningful day to day change and learn the art of becoming yourself.
However you’re arriving, there’s a place to begin.
Journal
Reflections, honest conversations and practical tools for self-understanding, self-love and everyday life.
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Gatherings
Intimate gatherings for women and queer people, creating space for connection, conversation and a little time for yourself.
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1:1 Guidance
Peeling back the layers. 1:1 guidance for deeper self-understanding, self-worth and meaningful change.
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I’m Tyla – The Self-Love Practitioner
I didn’t become a practitioner because I had all the answers. I became one because I know what it’s like to feel completely disconnected from yourself.
Once upon a time, I was a shell of a person: co-dependent on those around me and unable to function independently. At that time, I never thought I could grow to be the person I am today. But I did. If little old me could do it, then how can I not believe others can too?!
We are all human, and are all capable of change. I believe we can learn to find our voice, understand ourselves more deeply and carve a fulfilling life. If you’re struggling, blocked, treading water or feeling stuck, that’s where I come in.
My job isn’t to solve it for you. It’s to empower and aid your thinking so you can do it yourself. You already have the answers — it’s just about recognising them.
From the Journal
Reflections on self-love, self-understanding, psychology, relationships and the messy business of becoming yourself.
The way I see it.
I have a logical and practical brain, but I also feel things deeply. I’m interested in what happens when we give both sides of ourselves a seat at the table.
We’re complex creatures. Sometimes understanding comes through knowledge and reflection. Sometimes it comes through emotion, intuition and experience. I think there’s value in making space for both.
Head
Psychology
Patterns
Understanding
Practical tools
Structure
Heart
Emotion
Intuition
Creativity
Connection
Expression
The work happens somewhere in the middle.
This is where I work — bringing together understanding and intuition, reflection and action, so that insight doesn’t just stay in the clouds, but becomes something tangible you can actually live.
What would change if guilt wasn’t making the decisions?
A free 43-page guide to understanding guilt, setting boundaries and making decisions that feel more like your own.
Kind words from clients
“Tyla is wonderful and our coaching sessions have been an absolute joy. She has helped me to understand the steps I need to take, worked with me to develop some coping mechanisms and enabled me to reach a state of calm acceptance. She is very insightful and has a beautiful energy. I would definitely recommend.”
“I have felt and seen dramatic changes in my personal & professional development & growth. This is due to Tyla putting her coaching skills & techniques in to place, her self care & self love approach always being very active!”
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